tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381610194426892590.post2972211326765641771..comments2023-04-12T02:53:28.052-06:00Comments on My Stranger, My Love: You Done GoodPrincess Consuela Bananahammockhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05793109376663772826noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381610194426892590.post-68002240644541192352009-05-19T10:03:00.000-06:002009-05-19T10:03:00.000-06:00Thanks Leila. :) You've always had a way of makin...Thanks Leila. :) You've always had a way of making me feel better. <br /><br />Can you believe that I miss you?Princess Consuela Bananahammockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05793109376663772826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381610194426892590.post-12299821307969121912009-05-19T06:57:00.000-06:002009-05-19T06:57:00.000-06:00Leila Said,
You've done good. I think it means m...Leila Said,<br /><br />You've done good. I think it means more than just growing the child. That just happens on its own, like it our not (as I suffer from indigestion and the inability to bend), after the deed. :) You've done good because you have made the right decision for Grant, even though it must be one of the hardest things you will go through. Plus that is one of the worst labor stories I have heard - and that is all about you. <br /><br />You have done good.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381610194426892590.post-69417370846442519982009-05-13T23:45:00.000-06:002009-05-13T23:45:00.000-06:00*gasp!*
Dana, I'm totally blown away by your comm...*gasp!*<br /><br />Dana, I'm totally blown away by your comment! Thank you so much for reading my blog and sharing your thoughts with me! I can't tell you how much that means to me. Please feel free to follow my blog and tell everyone you know about it. I just want people to know that it's not all taboo, ya know? It's real life. Thanks again! And I'll have to thank LeAnna, too. :)Princess Consuela Bananahammockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05793109376663772826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3381610194426892590.post-34225255433809516562009-05-13T22:40:00.000-06:002009-05-13T22:40:00.000-06:00I was directed to your blog by LeAnna...I am also ...I was directed to your blog by LeAnna...I am also a birth mother...and can I just say what an awesome writer you are? I've only read a few posts but they are great! And to this one: I can relate completely. My journey began 20 years ago and I chose adoption for my son for the same (almost word-for-word) reasons. I was 20 years old - single, no family support, struggling financially and spiritually and no education to obtain a decent job with. Co-parenting with the birth father would have been a nightmare on top of it. I knew then and I especially know now that a child DOES deserve a mother and a father in a stable and spiritual home environment. My love could not be enough even though it felt like I could fill the grand canyon with it a million times over. That love is why I placed him. I sacrified my needs for his. Now I do have that family I dreamed of and it was worth the wait. My adoption was and is still closed so I have only a few baby pictures to cherish - until recently. His mother sent a letter and current picture of our son through our agency and it has been so helpful for my peace of mind! He's so handsome - and looks nothing like me. bummer. But am I ever grateful for that kind gesture from his Mom and I love her so much even though I have no idea who she is. My prayers were answered; he is with the family meant for him even though it kills me to admit it. I'll keep reading your posts and if you ever want to talk to me ask LeAnna for my info okay? Take care, DanaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com